Congrats, CeeLo Green. You are scum.
Does Curtis Lepore know about you? I think you’d have a lot to talk about, with that whole being a rapist thing in common, and that whole believing it’s not rape/you have consent if they’re not conscious thing…
If body hair on women is ‘gross and unhygienic’ then the same applies to men. Body hair is body hair, you can’t pick and choose.
mainstream tumblr feminism may have many glaring faults but it has bred an army of teenage girls who understand the common ways that misogyny is reinforced in society and who know that they’re better off loving their fellow woman than fighting with her and that’s actually pretty damn revolutionary
How to make your very own I Don’t Suck file:
It can be general or specific—A lot of my clients make general files with notes from loved ones or former students/clients/bosses of theirs or other supports. Or magazine clippings that remind them of goals or qualities they have. I am currently making one that is therapy related as a way to transition from my most recent job and prepare for my move abroad. It has notes from clients, supervisees and evaluations.
What you need: It can be as low maintenance as a file folder stuffed with notes or as high maintenance as a well-crafted scrapbook. What’s important is that you have a place to go when you need a pick-me-up.
You can gather things to build it—don’t have what you’re looking for? Start gathering!
- If you have a friend or family member you trust to be supportive of you, see if they’d be willing to write you a note about what they like about you.
- Next time you’re looking at a magazine or reading a blog and see something that resonates with you—save it for your file. Truth resonates, and you can’t recognize something that you don’t have, so if there is something you read or see that you admire and relate to, there’s something of you that’s in it.
- Write yourself some affirmations when you’re feeling good—make your own or use song lyrics or quotes.
-latest After Trauma post
YO IM PUTTING THIS THIS IN MY RECOVERY BINDER
ps im making a recovery binder
my therapist taught me to start thinking of my anxiety as my panicky friend
this is so cute omg
Woah this is super useful!!
BOW DOWN BITCHES
Sometimes I wonder about the future of full length articles in a world where they are summarised in 140 characters
Artist: Mary Lambert
Secrets- Mary Lambert
They tell us from the time were young
To hide the things that we don’t like about ourselves
I know I’m not the only one who spent so long attempting to be someone else
Well I’m over it